Kicking Off ...

It's taken me awhile, bit I figured with recent developments in my life that it was time to wax lyrical about a subject of significant importance to me. Something that I expect few people to relate to and the vast majority to scuttle away from any random surf to this page with some combination of shock, embarrassment and revulsion.

That subject is BONDAGE.

Yes, that's right. Primarity this is for me and relates to the new relationship I have with an amazing woman, but I'm posting this in an on-line forum as a way to record important events and as a test of how far I follow through. Will this be my only post for six weeks as I lose interest and move onto other things? Or will this be something I update regularly - complete with pictures to compliment my musings?

We shall see. But for now, I'll simply start with this. Last night, my incredible (and relatively new) girlfriend took it upon herself to buy a ballgag from an adult store - just because she knew I would love it. She went in, tried on a few, picked the one out she liked, and then brought it round to share with me. Not only did she pick the complex harness gag (saying "The other major type had just one strap!"), but she wanted to wear it throughout the next time we made love. Which meant, in the end, she wore it for almost 90 minutes.

Now, I've been into bondage for as long as I can remember, but I've never owned a ballgag. I'd always been too ashamed of my own interests to buy one for any previous partner at a store (though, of course, on-line purchases have become my cheating way of buying other associated fetish items in the past) ; not to mention that most previous partners - whilst tolerating my love of bondage - would have freaked out at the sight of such a complicated and daunting looking gag. So to say I was blown away by my girlfriend's present would be a considerable understatement.

As much as I'd love to share the pictures of her with the gag on, anonymity is essential at present, so you'll have to settle for the picture I took upon discovering that her elbows can virtually touch when tied together! But more on that revelation later.

For now, my blog has begun!